Give Yourself a Hand: 5 Masturbation Myths Debunked
Being intimate with another person is great—but solo play can be just as pleasurable and is a natural and healthy activity. Despite this, there's still a stigma around touching yourself, along with loads of myths designed to discourage people from doing it, despite real wellness benefits. In reality, it’s a powerful form of self-love enjoyed by many and can make you feel empowered (because giving yourself mind-blowing orgasms can definitely do that!).
Here are five of the most common masturbation myths (and why they’re totally wrong). Get your hands ready because it’s time to kick shame to the curb for good!
MYTH #1 / Masturbation can cause medical problems
THE TRUTH
For some reason, masturbation has been wrongly accused of being the cause of many different health problems. These include dehydration, decreased sperm count and infertility, acne, hormonal imbalances and loss of vision. None of these have been scientifically proven, and masturbation actually has wellness benefits, such as an improved mood, better sleep, reduced stress and less pain.
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MYTH #2 / Solo sessions are for single people
THE TRUTH
Many people believe that masturbation is only for singles, and that if you’re in a relationship your pleasure should always involve your partner. Some even think that if their partner masturbates, it’s a sign that they’re not sexually satisfied.
The truth is, masturbation can be done solo or with a plus-one as part of foreplay or just for fun. It offers unique benefits on its own and can actually enhance intimacy and sexual satisfaction in a relationship.
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THE TRUTH
Another vicious lie—regular masturbation does not lead to sexual dysfunction. In fact, it can actually have the opposite effect, especially for women. According to a survey conducted, the Female Sexual Function Index found that women who masturbate regularly reported higher levels of overall sexual satisfaction. Masturbation is also not a contributing factor to erectile dysfunction in men.
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MYTH #4 / It depletes the body of necessary nutrients
THE TRUTH
Many athletes avoid sex or masturbation before a game because they believe it will negatively affect their performance. This belief is based on the misconception that sperm contains essential nutrients—such as proteins—that the body needs to perform at its best. There is, however, no scientific evidence to suggest that orgasms lead to nutrient deficiencies or that abstaining from them will make you a stronger, more efficient player or person.
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MYTH #5 / Masturbating can cause genital damage
THE TRUTH
Unless you are punching yourself in the bits, it’s very unlikely that you will cause any
permanent damage. That being said, it’s always a good idea to be gentle with your genitals and practice good hygiene, so wash your hands first, keep your nails trimmed and sterilise your sex toys after use. It’s possible that you might experience a bit of chafing, but using some lube can help prevent friction.
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This May-sturbation, embrace this healthy and fun activity and experience self-induced
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New to self-gratification? Read our blog - Getting Handsy: A Beginner’s Guide to Masturbation. By the time you're done reading, you’ll be itching to get your hands (or toys) all over yourself!