Boys and Their Toys: The Ultimate Beginner’s Guide to Sex Toys for Men

Who says sex toys are just for girls? Gents, it’s time to give your pleasure a little upgrade. Whether you’re flying solo, curious about trying something new or simply looking to spice things up between the sheets, sex toys can open up a whole new world of sensations.

Forget the awkwardness, leave the stigma at the bedroom door and get ready to meet your new favourite playmates. From handy gadgets that take matters into their own hands to rings that add some extra staying power, there’s a toy for every guy. So, get ready to play!

And what better time to explore than Movember? It's the perfect excuse to give men's pleasure and sexual wellness some well-deserved attention. Want to know more about the month? Check out our blog, Movember Is for the Boys.


Made for Men: Why Try Male Sex Toys?
There’s no such thing as a one-size-fits-all approach to getting off. Sex toys are a fun way to explore what feels good, discover new sensations and get better acquainted with your body.

Firstly, they can bring some variety to solo play. If your usual routine has become a little predictable, a new texture, sensation or type of stimulation can shake things up. Literally 😉 Think of it as taking your self-love game from standard definition to HD!


Toys can also encourage you to slow down and pay attention to what you enjoy, helping you better understand your body and discover what really gets you going. And why stick to one trick when you can add a few more to your solo pleasure repertoire, anyway?

Meet the Main Events: 3 Types of Sex Toys for Men
Not sure where to start? These three categories are a great introduction to the wonderful world of male sex toys. Each offers something a little different, so you can find the right fit for you.

1. Male Masturbators
If your hand has been doing all the heavy lifting, it might be time to bring in some backup!

Male masturbators are designed to provide stimulation through a sleeve or enclosed chamber, often featuring textured interiors that create sensations different from traditional manual stimulation.

Some are simple, discreet sleeves, while others have more elaborate designs or features for a more immersive experience. Depending on the model, you might find variations in texture, tightness, shape and stimulation style.

If you’re a beginner, start with a straightforward design, use plenty of compatible lubricant and take your time getting comfortable. There’s no need to rush.

Beginner tip: Not sure which one to choose? Start with a simple manual stroker if you're after something easy to use, or explore vibrating masturbators if you're looking for a little extra buzz!

2. Cock Rings
Small but mighty, cock rings are designed to fit around the base of the penis, and some models also fit around the penis and testicles. They work by gently restricting blood from flowing back out of the penis, which may help maintain firmness during an erection.

Cock rings can also provide a different sensation for the wearer, and some have additional features such as vibration for extra stimulation. They're an option for men who want to explore different sensations and experiment with their solo pleasure routine.



Beginner tip: Choose a properly sized, body-safe ring designed for sexual use. It should feel snug, never painful or numb. For safety, start with a flexible, easy-to-remove ring, never wear it for longer than 30 minutes and remove it immediately if you experience pain, numbness, swelling or discolouration.

3. Prostate Massagers
Ready to venture beyond the usual suspects? Meet the prostate massager. Designed for anal use, these toys stimulate the prostate, a small gland located inside the body, a short distance into the rectum and towards the front of the body.

The prostate, which we explore in more detail in our Prostate Pleasure 101 blog, is sometimes nicknamed the male G-spot because some men find stimulation of the gland intensely pleasurable.

These sex toys come in different shapes and sizes, with curved designs intended to reach the prostate. Some are manual, while others offer vibration or other features.



Beginner tip: Start with a small, purpose-designed prostate massager, use generous amounts of compatible lubricant and relax. You might be in for a treat! For safety reasons, always choose an anal-safe toy with a flared base to prevent it from slipping too far inside. Start slowly, never force insertion and stop if anything feels painful.

Picking Your Pleasure: How to Choose Your First Sex Toy

Overwhelmed by the options? Choosing your first sex toy doesn't have to be complicated. First, think about what interests you most. Want to experiment with new textures? A masturbator could be your match. Curious about different sensations and erection firmness? A cock ring may be worth exploring. Interested in a different kind of stimulation? A prostate massager might be the one.


Another tip for first-timers: Consider the toy's size, material and features before buying. Body-safe silicone is a popular choice, and simpler designs are often easier to use and clean when you're just starting out.

A little preparation goes a long way towards making pleasure safer and more comfortable. Clean your toy before and after every session using the method recommended for its material and design. Let it dry completely before storing it somewhere clean and dry.

Lube is your friend, too. For anal play, use plenty of lube to avoid discomfort.

Water-based lubricant is a versatile beginner-friendly option that's generally compatible with most sex toys, including silicone toys. Always check the manufacturer's recommendations before using any lubricant.



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