Best Sex Toys for Women: The Toys Every Woman Needs to Try

Every August, we observe Women’s Month in South Africa, which is a time to reflect on how far we have come when it comes to women’s rights and equality, celebrate the achievements of women, and consider all the work that still needs to be done when it comes to securing their safety in society.

Something that women should all be factoring into their lives is some much-needed self-care, which is crucial for overall well-being. And one way to do this is to put their pleasure first with the help of sex toys. There are many different types to choose from, all of which work in unique ways but have one common goal: empowering women to take their climax into their own hands (literally). By using these innovative gadgets below the belt, you can discover which one (or more) works best for your body.

Don’t know where to start? We got you. Here are our five must-try, female-first sex toys to add to your collection so that you can find your fave. Because your new bedside-table bestie is bound to be in the bunch!

Wand vibrators
The OG when it comes to female pleasure, wand vibrators started out as body massagers in the 1960s and became popular masturbation aids not long after. Ideal for newbies, they are easy to use and are simply placed and rubbed over the vulva and clitoris until you find the perfect spot. They can be used over or under clothes, with their powerful and adjustable vibrations and large round head being a game-changer when it comes to external stimulation. Start on the lowest setting and experiment with pressure and position until you have found what feels best.

Bullet vibrators
Small, discreet and the best travel companion, bullet vibrators have a sleek and compact design with a vibrating tip. Not only does their size make it easy for them to go everywhere with you, but it’s also simple to incorporate them into partnered play. They can provide more focused intensity on the clitoris or other external erogenous zones and also come with several speed settings so you can gradually level up according to your comfort and enjoyment. Another perk is that they are easy to clean with some toy cleaner and a quick rinse.

Rabbit vibrators
The rabbit vibrator is one of the sex toys that was launched in and went on to dominate the '90s and early 2000s. It provides both internal (G-spot) and external (Clitoris) stimulation so that all bases are covered. It gets its name from the small "rabbit ears" that sit against the clitoris while the longer shaft is inserted, delivering two pleasurable sensations at the same time. In some cases, the inner and outer parts can be controlled separately for the ultimate customisable experience. For those who like to combine multiple sensations at once, this is the toy to try. First, apply some lubricant for easy insertion and start on a low setting, adjusting as you go to suit your body's preference.

Clitoral suction vibrators
One of the most revolutionary advancements in the sex toy industry, clitoral suction vibrators are designed to stimulate the clitoris using gentle pulses of air rather than traditional vibrations. Instead of buzzing directly against the skin, they create a fluttering suction sensation that many compare to oral sex done right. Simply place the nozzle over your clitoris, start on the lowest setting and work your way up until you find the intensity that feels best for you. Because they focus purely on external stimulation, they leave your vagina free and available for your partner to focus on internal stimulation for a mind-blowing two-in-one experience. Many of them are also waterproof, so you can take your playtime to the bath or pool for a wet-and-wild time.

G-Spot vibrators
Discovered in the 1950s by a doctor, the G-Spot was popularised in sexual circles in the 1980s. And now, there are toys designed specifically for this soft, spongy and sensitive area located on the front wall of the vagina. These G-Spot vibrators have a curved shape and are a great pick for those who want to explore more focused internal stimulation. Once inserted, all you need to do is find the right spot by adjusting the angle and then turn it on for an experience that gets you hot from the inside out.

Whatever your experience level or the sensations that make you feel good, there’s a sex toy for you in our Women's Month collection that will meet your every want and need. But while you embark on a sexy search for The One, don't be afraid to try a few different types until you find your perfect match 😍